Relationships 🆙

Being disappointed by others: why does it happen to us?

Being disappointed by others: why does it happen to us? Sometimes it can happen to be disappointed by others. But why does this happen? It depends on us? Do we have too high expectations of people? In this article we will try to answer these questions.Written and […]

Quotes about life as a couple: the 60 most true, deep and funniest

A collection of phrases about life as a couple that will make you laugh, reconsider and even move you. Share them with your great love <3 This time we will not stop at the introduction: being with a person who loves and respects us is one of the most […]

Sapiosexuality: the fascination of knowledge

Sapiosexuality: the fascination of knowledge Few things are as seductive to sapiosexuals as an interesting, intimate, and enriching conversation. For this segment of the population, sexual desire goes far beyond the skin and mere physical appearance: it stems from […]

Happy relationships: a question of genes?

Happy relationships: a question of genes? According to recent research, there is a gene that promotes couple happiness. What does this discovery say and what implications does it have?Written and verified by the psychologist GetPersonalGrowth.Last update: 15 November […]

10 promises partners should make each other

When the couple relationship begins it is full of dreams, hopes and illusions. But time and daily life will take care of putting everything in its place and soon this passion can give way to boredom. So it's no surprise that many couples split up quickly. […]

Solomon's paradox: good at giving advice

Solomon's paradox: good at giving advice Always give good advice to others, but don't know what to do when when you have a problem? This is a fairly common phenomenon because, after all, managing your own challenges is more complex, if only because we have more […]

Couple crisis or definitive breakup?

Second the information offered by the Institute of Family Policy, in 2010 in Spain a wedding ended every 4 minutes (sometimes the statistics are a little bit incredible but I'll try to trust the numbers). The vast majority of couples go through periods of crisis […]

Leaving a toxic relationship behind

Leaving a toxic relationship behind Ending a toxic relationship is extremely complicated due to the addictive bonds. But you have to ask yourself a question: "If I have to forget myself in order to carry on this relationship, is it really worth continuing?"Last […]

Emotional manipulation: the guilt game

Emotional manipulation: the guilt game Emotional manipulation tries to make the other feel guilty and to submit to our desires. Sometimes a few seemingly innocent sentences are enough ...Last update: December 16, 2022Emotional manipulation wreaks havoc on psychological […]

How to forget a narcissist: psychology and 5 effective tips

Do you want to know how to forget a narcissist? Are you looking for a way to forget about a pathological narcissist and move on with your life? You have come to the right place! Having a relationship with someone with pathological narcissism can have major repercussions […]

Sex between friends: does it improve the relationship?

Sex between friends: does it improve the relationship? Last update: 15 September, 2022The publication of research conducted in the United States caused a great stir. It indicated that 20% of the people surveyed had had sex with a friend. The most surprising […]

Online or virtual infidelity

Online or virtual infidelity What is perceived in a certain way by one couple may be perceived in a completely different way by another. The meaning of online infidelity therefore depends on the agreements established within the relationship.Last update: June 27, […]

You need - give and receive - 5 compliments for every criticism

Sometimes, even if we don't realize it, we keep a communication style that is too critical and even hostile. Criticizing comes naturally, learning not to make value judgments and accepting without judging are more complex skills that require preparation.For this […]

NLP and seduction: 3 effective techniques

Neurolinguistic programming can be used successfully in several areas of a person's life: from sales to effective public speaking; from feeling confident to instantly improving your mood. An interesting use that can be made of pnl is linked to the sphere of […]

Growing up with parents with a psychological disorder

Growing up with parents with a psychological disorder As a rule, parents are the main points of reference for the child. As a result, if a parent has a mental disorder, the child's emotional development is likely to be significantly affected.Last update: April […]

Can a narcissist change for love? If so, how can you help him?

A narcissist can change for love? If so, is it possible to help him? You have finally realized that there is something wrong with your relationship and in the end, even if reluctantly, you have accepted the idea that your partner is a narcissist. But while you […]

5 tips for solving problems and conflicts

5 tips for solving problems and conflicts Last update: February 18, 2022Our life is full of problems and conflicts that surprise us and from which we can sometimes come out victorious and sometimes not.This situation leads us, on more than one occasion, to ignore […]

Disposable loves

"Satisfaction in individual love cannot be achieved without true humility, courage, faith and discipline", wrote Erich Fromm in the mid-1900s, to which today Zygmunt Bauman adds that "in a culture where such qualities are rare, being successful in the ability to […]

People who know how to love their partner

People who know how to love their partner People who know how to love their partner are able to trust, share, dialogue, respect and be patient. Love must be cultivated and it requires will and conscience to be lasting and healthy.Last update: July 24, 2022Erich […]

Friendship is indelible ink

Friendship is indelible ink Last update: 10 September, 2022We live in a society that sees us increasingly independent and in which we spend more time counting the likes received on Facebook or the number of our virtual friends, than with a friend chatting or drinking […]

Distinguish love from partner's need

Distinguish love from partner's need Sometimes it can be difficult to define love, because it is a subject that has been addressed from so many points of view. For this reason, perhaps it is better to start defining what love is NOT.Last update: 24 March, 2022At […]

Assertive communication in the family

Assertive communication in the family Having assertive communication in the family means expressing one's opinion in a conscious, coherent, clear, direct and balanced way.Last update: July 09, 2022Communication is the foundation of a good relationship with our […]

Friendships Born on the Internet: Are They Real?

Friendships Born on the Internet: Are They Real? Esteem, respect, support ... There are many ingredients of friendship that do not require physical presence. But are they enough to keep the bond born through a screen?Last update: April 13, 2022Technological advances […]

How to compliment a girl: the ultimate guide

How to compliment a girl? You will agree with me that the theme is not at all obvious ... If you overdo it with compliments to a woman, you risk appearing too cheeky or slimy; if you don't do them at all, you risk appearing disinterested and push her away […]

Destructive behaviors in the couple

Destructive behaviors in the couple The relationship as a couple is a bond that must be cultivated day after day. The daily coexistence exposes the partners to the most varied conflicts and differences. The lack of love and mutual respect in resolving such conflicts […]

How to get an ex boyfriend back with psychology (in 7 steps)

Are you wondering if it's possible to get an ex back? You want to know how to win back an ex boyfriend who left you but still love to death? You are in the right place! You were probably having a great relationship, with a guy who made you really happy and who […]

How to make a man fall deeply in love in 12 steps

A fresh new perspective on how to make a man fall in love with you in these modern times. A collection of the best advice dating experts can give you. 13 tips on how to make a man fall in love with you Do you want to make a man fall in love with you forever? […]

Messages and phrases to win a girl back: 8 tested examples

What are the righteous messages to win back an ex, or the right ones phrases to win back a girl after he left you? Surely this is what you are asking yourself, and through this article I will try to give you a complete and in-depth answer. But first I want […]

Most common conflicts and characteristics

Most common conflicts and characteristics All conflicts are united by tension between divergent positions. While it can be positive, as it stimulates change, it can also be the start of a disaster if it's not handled properly. Last update: Augusts 15, 2022The most […]

Do not accept the raising of children

Do not accept the raising of children There comes a time when you have to let your children go. Not accepting that they grow up and claim their spaces in freedom and independence will be a source of suffering for everyone.Last update: May 03, 2022It doesn't matter […]

Family breakdown and children

Family breakdown and children How does family breakdown affect the little ones? What can we do to make separation less traumatic for children?Last update: May 15, 2022Depending on the circumstances, a separation or divorce can have more or less significant effects. […]

The biggest mistake people make when choosing a partner for life

Getting married is an important decision. In fact, it is estimated that 86% of young people think their marriage will last a lifetime. But often, we are not fully aware of the implications of "for life".In reality, it means that if we live an average of 90 years […]

Disappointing parents: the fear that hinders growth

Disappointing parents: the fear that hinders growth There are several factors that can prevent us from achieving the goals we set in our life. Among these, the fear of disappointing parents.Last update: July 18, 2022There are several factors that can prevent us […]

Relationship crisis: 5 warning signs that indicate a lack of love

Most people don't like change, they feel very good about it their comfort zone to get out of it. So sometimes they even go so far as to deny too the more obvious things, like the lack of love. It is a mechanism that we automatically activate to protect ourselves […]

John Gottman: Lessons on Love

John Gottman: Lessons on Love John Gottman is one of the leading couple relationship experts. He taught us that the most important pillar of love is communication. As long as there is mutual affection and admiration, any crisis can be overcome.Written and verified […]

5 mistakes that can ruin a relationship

Relationships between people are not an exact science. We often act instinctively, make mistakes and try again in the hope that this is the right time. But when things go wrong, we tend to blame the other and struggle to acknowledge our share of responsibility. […]

Why did he leave me ?: confused pain

Why did he leave me ?: confused pain Confused pain often does not allow you to accept reality and moving forward becomes impossible. While the ideal is to receive an explanation from the terminator, this is not always the case.Last update: April 03, 2022Many breakups […]

Types of love: how many are there?

Types of love: how many are there? Anthropologist Hellen Fisher explains that love can manifest itself in different forms. But how many types of love are there?Last update: 13 November 2022To answer, we will take as a reference point the theory developed over two […]

Couples Therapy - How Does It Work?

Relationship problems are currently one of the main causes that bring people to the psychologist's office. It is not strange if we consider, for example, that in Spain every 4 marriages fail three. In fact, couple problems not only damage the quality of the […]

Parents age and stop protecting us

Parents age and stop protecting us Accepting that our parents are aging can be tricky. From one day to the next, we have to protect them, solve their problems and put in place the greatest demonstration of love: looking after them.Last update: June 02, 2022As parents […]

Extreme genitalization in sexual intercourse

Extreme genitalization in sexual intercourse Due to different social and religious influences, there is an extreme genitalization of sexual intercourse. Last update: May 01, 2022Due to different social and religious influences, there is an extreme genitalization […]

Why are men afraid of smart women?

If you ask any straight man if he's attracted to a smart woman, there's a good chance he'll say yes. If we ask him if he could maintain a relationship with someone smarter than him, he will probably answer yes.In fact, researchers at the University of Buffalo have […]

How to make love: 14 amazing tips

A mini guide on how to make love so that your partner is fully satisfied and asks you for more and more. Table of Contents: the foreplayHow to make love: tips for herHow to make love: tips for him How to make love: the state of the art There is […]

Improve social competence to be smarter in relationships

Improve social competence to be smarter in relationships Last update: April 07, 2022Does social competence affect how we feel? Answer yourself: how did you feel when you were able to communicate effectively with another person or when you handled an argument in […]

The problem of sex addiction

The problem of sex addiction Last update: 15 September, 2022Sex addiction, or satyriasis, in psychology it is considered a personality disorder, that is a pathology.Every addiction is harmful, but some are particularly more ingrained than others. If we can understand […]

I miss my ex boyfriend: should I win him back or forget him?

I miss my ex boyfriend, what can I do? I still love my ex and I miss him so much… should I win him back or forget him? To miss someone having been together with for a long time can be a very painful experience. It inevitably happens when you are left, but […]

Controlling the partner: is it acceptable behavior?

Controllare the partner it is not a new fashion. Indeed, they are centuries that women and men take care to control their respective partners e to this end they have resorted to the most improbable techniques, including bargaining private investigators. […]

Narcissistic friends who don't care about others

Narcissistic friends who don't care about others Narcissistic friends always have an excuse when they let us down. They tell us about their problems, but they are rarely interested in how we feel. They are addicted and selfish, yet we often find it difficult to […]

Factors that limit sexual desire

Factors that limit sexual desire Physical and emotional exhaustion, personal problems, stress, insecurities or couple arguments are some factors that can reduce sexual desire.Last update: April 23, 2022Sexual desire, or libido, can be influenced by many factors, […]

Thinking about your loved one reduces the feeling of pain

Many people, supported by popular belief, believe that love is synonymous with suffering but ... psychologists of the UCLA claim that this idea is not entirely correct. The study involved 25 women, the majority of them students from the same university. An essential […]

Power struggles destroy the relationship with children

Power struggles destroy the relationship with children Power struggles are common in many families. However, it is much more rewarding to relate to children on the basis of mutual trust and respect.Last update: April 24, 2022Parents are human too, they too have […]

Delimit the spaces in the couple

Delimit the spaces in the couple In the couple both partners merge. It is certainly important to have a shared space, as well as an individual and fulfilling one. How to reconcile the two aspects?Last update: 16 November 2022Love relationships can be filled with […]

Disabled children and their effect in the family

Disabled children and their effect in the family Last update: 14 September, 2022A new family member is always a source of joy. Everyone is mobilized to welcome the little one and congratulate the happy parents. But the truth is, this situation isn't always […]

Leave the partner you still love

Leave the partner you still love "I love you, but I leave you." It seems a contradiction, but who has not found himself in a similar situation: having to end a relationship even if the love still exists. How to deal with these situations?Last update: July 29, 2022Having […]

Effects of menopause on sexual desire

Effects of menopause on sexual desire The effects of menopause on sexual desire are very common. That is to say, menopause can reduce libido.Last update: May 27, 2022The effects of menopause on sexual desire are very common. That is to say, menopause can reduce […]

Find the right gift for the baby

Find the right gift for the baby We could say that a smart purchase includes the following elements: it is useful, safe and contributes to the child's cognitive, emotional and social development. But how can this be achieved?Last update: April 27, 2022Finding the […]

How to kiss a girl: 5 simple steps

We have gathered the tips from experts and professionals to write this guide on how to kiss a girl. Good lesson! How and why is the kiss important? Humans have been kissing for a long time, probably since they have lips, and it's no secret why: a good […]

The smile: a weapon of seduction

Chaplin said that un smile it costs nothing and produces a lot, it only lasts a moment but can remain in the memories forever. It is certain that a smile is an excellent weapon for convincing people and excellent for seducing them. But… it is necessary to consider […]

The 6 best topics to talk to a girl

You know what the saying goes: men are from Mars, women are from Venus, and they both speak completely different fucking languages. Well, at least that's what many men will tell you. In fact, I'm pretty sure every man on this planet has had at least a handful of […]

Lack of trust in the relationship

Lack of trust in the relationship Last update: 21 September, 2022Lack of trust in a relationship is like cancer. Very often we do not notice it, but in a short time it expands and becomes invasive. The lack of trust is one of the factors that, if not addressed […]

Love makes you generous

We all know that love can do wonders, even if it sometimes takes us to a stage very close to insanity as we lose most of our critical skills, as you can read in my previous article: “Why is love blind? ". But in addition to these effects (nefarious or adorable […]

How to manage conflicts with humor

How to manage conflicts with humor Last update: 14 September, 2022Trying to play down is an effective strategy with which to deal with a conflict, without diminishing things. Managing conflicts by taking life with humor not only allows you to resolve discords, […]

Emotional dependence and the object of desire

Emotional dependence and the object of desire The choice of an emotionally dependent partner is not the fruit of fate. In many cases it is the result of an unconscious search. Last update: 13 March, 2022Often people who have had harmful and destructive relationships […]

Books to overcome a breakup

Books to overcome a breakup Breakup books contain no magic formulas or absolute answers. They can be a great compass for people who are going through this difficult time.Last update: May 12, 2022Books are not only good company, but they also offer deep comfort […]

Decision making in the couple

Decision making in the couple The decision-making process in the couple is based more on our mental anticipations than on the reality we live with the partner.Last update: May 22, 2022All couples face situations in which they have to make decisions. And however […]

Friendship doubles happiness and cuts sorrow in half

Friendship doubles happiness and cuts sorrow in half Last update: 10 September, 2022Friendship protects our psychological and physical health. It is proven that isolation has a great impact on mortality; in fact, there are studies that claim that lack of psychological […]

Respect in a relationship

Respect in a relationship Respecting your partner means accepting him. Do not try to change or shape it according to your needs. Last update: April 13, 2022Theoretically, we all agree that respect in a relationship is essential. In our reports, however, we don't […]

DAS: scale to evaluate the couple relationship

DAS: scale to evaluate the couple relationship Communication, gestures of affection, ability to reach agreements ... The dyadic adaptation scale (DAS) by Graham B. Spanier allows you to evaluate these and other aspects to know the degree of cohesion in the couple […]

Does the narcissus fall in love? All about the narcissistic man in love

Are you wondering if the narcissus falls in love too? You are in the right place! In the course of our life, we all find ourselves dealing with a narcissist at one time or another. It can be a friend, a colleague, a boss, a simple acquaintance, or worse ... […]

Liquid love or the fragility of ties

Liquid love or the fragility of ties Last update: 16 March, 2022Liquid love is an interesting concept enunciated by the sociologist Zygmunt Bauman.This poetic but disconsolate image contains a reality that seems to be quite common today: the fragility of ties.An […]

How to know if there is attraction between two people

How to know if there is attraction, physical or mental, between two people by observing 10 simple signs. After writing several guides, including how to tell if a guy likes you and how to tell if a girl likes you, we decided to write this article on how to […]

10 phrases to never say to your partner

Coexistence is not easy, everyday problems, frustration at not having achieved something and stress caused by work are some of the factors we deal with every day as we try to make sure they don't damage our relationship. . In fact, many of the problems in relationships […]

How to win a man back: 10 sneaky but effective techniques

You stai chiedendo how to win a man back who left you? You are in the right place! Life can seem terrible when the one you love unilaterally decides to move on and abandon you. It is a gesture that appears cruel and unjustifiable, and that plunges you into the […]

A mistaken belief: how to correct it?

A mistaken belief: how to correct it? When a person makes a mistake and we want to point out his mistake, we must do it with respect, assertiveness and empathy. It is equally important not to fall into moral pride because at times we may find that we are wrong. […]

Bullying wounds: Emotional suffering for the victim and his or her family

Bullying wounds: Emotional suffering for the victim and his family. Written and verified by psychologist. GetPersonalGrowth. Last updated: December 14, 2022 The following story attempts to describe the suffering caused by bullying injuries. It is about a child […]

Falling in love remotely and online, why not?

Falling in love remotely and online, why not? Online relationships can also be rewarding and meaningful. Although it is better to be cautious, more and more couples meet thanks to new technologies and develop a stable, happy and committed relationship. Written […]

Love letter: thank you for existing

Love letter: thank you for existing With you, existence is more intense, more authentic, more sincere. For this, I am writing you a love letter.Last update: October 23, 2022I don't know when this story started nor can I explain all this stirring of feelings, you […]

To be in disagreement, but in harmony

To be in disagreement, but in harmony Having different opinions on a topic is normal. That's why it's a pleasure to have people with whom we can disagree on something without this disagreement wearing out the relationship.Written and verified by the psychologist […]

How to deal with and overcome an unwanted separation: 10 tips

How to overcome a separation? Separation is one of the most difficult and painful challenges one can face in a lifetime. Perhaps the most painful, especially if it is one unwanted separation, and if we had invested all our energy, hopes and the best years of […]

Being the strongest member of the family?

Being the strongest member of the family? In every family there is someone who ends up taking on the role of a strong, tenacious and tireless person. However, this role has its consequences, perhaps more than one might think.Last update: July 30, 2022There is always […]

How to win back ex from a distance: some basic tips

In this article, I'll explain everything you need to know about how to win back an ex from a distance, o how to win back an ex from a distance. If you have been in a long distance relationship that ended too quickly and you want a second chance, you definitely […]

Male homosexuality in different cultures

Not all cultures view homosexuality in the same way. Currently, especially in cosmopolitan cities it is an accepted reality and many consider themselves modern as homosexuals. But ... how modern are we really? How is male homosexuality viewed in other cultures?In […]

Love as a couple according to Russ Harris

Love as a couple according to Russ Harris What is the secret to making the couple relationship stronger according to the theory of acceptance and commitment? In this article, we review it with Russ Harris.Last update: 24 November 2022Russ Harris is one of the psychotherapists […]

Sexual harassment in the workplace: what to do?

Sexual harassment in the workplace: what to do? Sexual harassment at work creates anguish, doubt and fear. In most cases, keeping quiet and letting time pass increases the intensity and frequency of abuse. Similar situations require prompt intervention.Last update: […]

Avoiding a couple crisis in 4 steps

Avoiding a couple crisis in 4 steps In this article we offer some practical tips to avoid a couple crisis effectively.Last update: April 19, 2022Although romantic relationships are one of the most important aspects in every person's life, yours is not always as […]

Attacks of jealousy and passive aggression

Attacks of jealousy and passive aggression Loving is not possession and even less is it control. However, the jealous person ends up acting guided by passive-aggressive instincts, in which hypervigilance, distrust and even blackmail cause profound attrition.Written […]

Recognize a true friendship

Recognize a true friendship Friendship can enrich us a lot, but it can also seriously harm us if we don't know how to recognize harmful bonds. Those who are close to us do not always do us good and sometimes the only solution is to move away.Last update: December […]

Giving advice isn't always good

Giving advice isn't always good Advice is welcomed as it indicates that the other person cares about us and we don't think they can hide a manipulative strategy to direct our conduct.Last update: July 03, 2022Advice is subjective opinion that is conveyed with the […]

Disillusionment in the couple: when and why does it arise?

About haven't you asked yourself this question after ten or twenty years of marriage? One day you turn around in bed, look at your partner, and wonder if he's the right person for you. And, of course, this happens because our brains are programmed (or better, […]

How to spot a toxic friendship

How to spot a toxic friendship 5 minutesLast update: 10 September, 2019A toxic friendship does not consist of just one person. What is toxic always affects at least two people. In some cases, the two people involved in these friendships have obvious toxic […]

Intimacy in the couple

Intimacy in the couple Although it may seem strange, it is sometimes difficult to achieve intimacy in the couple, as it involves exposing our vulnerable part.Last update: April 02, 2022Intimacy in the couple is extremely important. While it may be thought to be […]

How to rekindle the passion: 5 practical tips to find it again

How to rekindle the passion in the couple? Within a relationship, however happy and perfect it may have been, it is possible that the two partners find themselves experiencing a moment of detachment caused by the lack of passion, intimacy e involvement. In […]

10 wildly awkward couple questions

This list of awkward couple questions is not suitable for new relationships, faint of heart, serial cheaters and unfaithful people, picky people, etc... Being honest is one thing, but can your relationship handle awkward questions that require embarrassing, […]

Affection-focused law of attraction

Affection-focused law of attraction There is a type of attraction that goes beyond the physical aspect: it arises from affection and daily complicity. This is where we begin to share interests and hobbies with someone, creating a bond made up of values, dreams […]

I love you as you are, without adding anything else

I love you as you are, without adding anything else I love you as you are, with all that that implies. Thank you for crossing my path, for accepting me as I am and for teaching me that true love is built with patience, sincere affection and mutual understanding.Last […]

Marriage conflicts are more harmful than smoking and cholesterol

Interpersonal relationships are the greatest source of satisfaction, and also of problems. The couple relationship, in particular, is a source of enormous joy and support in difficult moments, but when it turns into a conflictual relationship it generates concerns […]

Similar or complementary in the couple

Similar or complementary in the couple If we were to ask ourselves what is best in a relationship, to be similar or complementary, the answer would be that a relationship requires flexibility and open-mindedness. We need to be similar in some respects and complementary […]

Resolve conflicts related to money

Resolve conflicts related to money There are thousands of examples of successful family businesses and this indicates that it is possible to have a harmonious "economic" coexistence between members of the same family.Last update: 30 March, 2022"In this house we […]

Resolve conflicts from assertive people

Resolve conflicts from assertive people Written and verified by the psychologist GetPersonalGrowth.Last update: 15 November 2022Assertive people are neither submissive nor subservient and do not use narcissistic or disrespectful arrogance. A typical feature of […]

What to do when left behind? Tips and mistakes to avoid

Being left behind is a traumatic event that unfortunately can happen to anyone, and that brings with it great amounts of suffering, confusion and despair. Is this happening to you too? In this article I will explain to you what to do when left behind, what mistakes […]

Bud sex, new sexual trend of straight men

Bud sex, new sexual trend of straight men If you have never heard of bud sex, in this article we will reveal all the characteristics of a new fashion trend among straight men.Last update: April 29, 2022Bud sex is a new concept in the field of sexual intercourse. […]

The timing of the couple for a healthy relationship

The timing of the couple for a healthy relationship Last update: April 30, 2022For a relationship to work, mutual respect is essential. There are many ways and opportunities to show the other that we understand, share or accept their thoughts, feelings and behaviors. […]

Using emotional manipulation to resolve inner conflicts

Using emotional manipulation to resolve inner conflicts Last update: 14 September, 2022You have certainly heard of emotional manipulation often. Of the different ways it manifests itself and the suffering it can cause to its victims. It is one of the behaviors […]

Types of families we can find today

Types of families we can find today Today there are different types of families: each responds to new realities. Having children or maintaining the same bond throughout your life is no longer considered as important as it used to be. At the same time, new models […]

What makes us fall in love according to science

What makes us fall in love according to science Beyond the physical aspect, we fall in love with the ability to engage in deep and interesting conversations. But not only.Last update: July 26, 2022What makes us fall in love with one person rather than another? […]

Learning to be alone after a breakup

Learning to be alone after a breakup When a relationship ends, taking time to be alone can help you grieve, heal, and start over. Find out how to take advantage and enjoy this phase.Last update: February 01, 2022Being in a relationship offers many personal and […]

Being the one you love the most in the couple: Advantage or curse?

The ideal relationship is one in which both members compromise on the same level and love each other in the same way. However, we do not live in an ideal world and sometimes, for various reasons, one of the two is compromised more than the other; sometimes this […]

Family myths and their effects

Family myths and their effects Family myths are tasked with hiding family secrets that cause discomfort, shame, or guilt. They survive because they tend to protect, defend and organize the family structure, saving secrets that are passed on from generation to generation. […]

Management of money in the couple

Management of money in the couple Joint or separate account? Problems with money in the couple usually cause more than one headache. Let's see what advice can be useful in these cases.Last update: May 11, 2022Money is often the subject of discussions and disagreements […]

Affective dependence: what it is and how to get out of it

La emotional dependence it is a pathology that negatively affects the lives of many people. Dependence can develop in the relationship with one's parent, with a child, with an authoritative person, but usually the most frequent emotional dependence is the one […]

Does sex between friends strengthen friendship?

Does sex between friends strengthen friendship? Last update: April 23, 2022“I love that you're cold when it's 25 degrees outside. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love the little wrinkle that forms on your nose when you look […]

A bad relationship can literally break your heart

Love is one of the most beautiful things that exists, however, a bad relationship is just the opposite, it can become a nightmare. In fact, people involved in a conflicted relationship have a higher risk of suffering from heart problems.A conflicted relationship […]

We attract what we convey

We attract what we convey The first step is to adopt the right attitude: do not deprive yourself of anything, do not limit yourself, do not be afraidLast update: July 03, 2022We cannot avoid bad news or potentially toxic people. By accepting that we cannot change […]

Intimacy in relationships: trusting each other

Intimacy in relationships: trusting each other Intimacy is a key element in any meaningful relationship that you aspire to endure over time. But how does reciprocity influence the birth of this intimacy?Last update: 24 March, 2022Intimacy in relationships - whether […]

How does technology change sexuality?

How does technology change sexuality? Technology is present in work, in food and even in sexuality. Sexting, dating apps, erotic content: perhaps we believe we are closer when, in reality, we are further away from each other.Last update: Augusts 25, 2022Technology […]

10 things we all deserve in a relationship

Finding a person who looks in the same direction as us, who loves us and supports us, can make us embark on the most beautiful adventure of our life. However, when we don't find the "right" person, the relationship can turn into a nightmare that ends up making […]

Main couple problems: in which areas do they manifest themselves?

Main couple problems: in which areas do they manifest themselves? If your relationship is going through a crisis, we encourage you to explore the 5 areas that show the main problems in relationships.Last update: 21 September, 2022Many of the people who go to couples […]

The behavior of the man in love - Psychology

The behavior of the man in love is sometimes difficult to define, but fortunately psychology comes to our aid. In this article we will see how psychology helps us understand when a man is in love and ready to build a serious relationship. Men and women are […]

Over 50 dating apps and sites to meet mature men and women

Looking for the best dating sites over 50? You are in the right place! The world, fortunately, is changing, and what once was the age that forced us to stay at home to wait for the end of the day, now becomes a door to an ocean of opportunities! Many people […]

Meaningful relationships: Friendships made of shared laughter and pain

Meaningful relationships: Friendships made of shared laughter and pain Written and verified by the psychologist GetPersonalGrowth.Last update: December 14, 2022Meaningful relationships are measured on the basis of the depth of the bond, of the shared sensitivity, […]

How to find a boyfriend for a serious relationship: 7 simple tips

Do you want to find a guy to have a serious relationship with but you don't know how to do it? These simple tips will put you on the right path to finding the ideal boyfriend. Learn to seduce, attract and conquer your ideal boyfriend. Reality is cruel, and […]

How to Meet Love in 45 Minutes: A Curious Study

It was the year 1997, when the psychologist Arthur Aron proposed one of the most curious experiments in the recent history of psychology. This psychologist thought that if we have some things in common with someone we could quickly fall in love with this person.To […]

Overcoming a separation: when forgetting seems impossible

Overcoming a separation: when forgetting seems impossible Forgetting a person is not easy at all, especially when the breakup does not depend on us. In this article we will talk about the reasons that lead some people to remain tied to the ghost of their relationship.Last […]

Forget about a toxic person

Forget about a toxic person Last update: July 25, 2022Everyone has been unable to stop thinking about another person's words or actions because of their emotional charge. When someone hurts us or our loved ones, the mind may be stuck on the event for longer than […]

How to recover a broken relationship: the complete guide

When we talk about recovering a finished relationship, we can refer to one history that is winding down or to one which is really over. Of course we are talking about two different situations, but they have a common element: the happy relationship you had before, […]

Codependency in the family of the drug addict

Codependency in the family of the drug addict When a family member has an addiction, everyone suffers. In addition to this, in order to help some family members they aggravate the situation. It happens in case of codependency.Last update: April 04, 2022Drug addiction […]

The family interferes in the couple's relationship

The family interferes in the couple's relationship The stability of the couple relationship can also be compromised by the families of origin. Last update: July 03, 2022When the family interferes in the couple's relationship, the scenario is considerably complicated. […]

Pause for reflection in love: what is it and how to behave

The pause for reflection is one of the most discussed solutions even by psychologists. It's about a delicate decision e important, which must be taken with a cool head and in the face of some very clear and elaborate reasoning. In fact, it is useless to ask […]

Men and women are different, even in the game

There are many more men addicted to gaming and video games than women, this also applies to boys and girls, why? Reiss, director of Stanford University's Interdisciplinary Center for Research in Brain Science, asked himself the same question. Obviously, his first […]

Sex in a relationship

Sex in a relationship Sex is a fundamental part of the relationship, but it is up to each to determine the level of relevance of the same.Last update: December 18, 2022Some people think that sex is overrated in a relationship, while for others it is essential. […]

It is not enough to feel love, it is necessary to know how to express it

They say that love can do anything. And there is no doubt that love is an essential ingredient of everything we do, from our work to interpersonal relationships. It is also a powerful dynamizer of our behavior. It gives us the motivation and strength we need to […]

Respect no contact

Respect no contact The no contact rule aims to leave an emotional bond behind forever. For this purpose, it is essential not to call, send messages or look at social profiles. It will be the most effective strategy to move forward with greater dignity.Last update: […]

Messages and phrases to win back a guy who left you

What are the righteous messages to win back an ex, or the right ones phrases to win back a boy after he left you? Surely this is what you are asking yourself, and through this article I will try to give you a complete and in-depth answer. First I want to tell […]

Tips for educating children

Tips for educating children Last update: May 04, 2022We are often overwhelmed by the great challenges we face every day in raising children. Despite being a complex task, small efforts can make a big difference. In the following lines we present three simple tips […]

Indifference towards the partner

Indifference towards the partner Have you ever experienced a similar situation? Indifference towards the partner is a complex and painful subject.Last update: February 18, 2022When a feeling of indifference towards the partner begins to manifest, it means that […]

The effects of indifference

The effects of indifference It is common to think that indifference means not feeling anything in front of a situation or a person, that we don't care about anything. But is it really possible to isolate our emotions in this way?Last update: 30 November 2022Indifference […]

The wall of silence in the couple

The wall of silence in the couple All couple relationships are subject to change, therefore to adaptations. The problem arises when it is impossible to adapt to the new conditions and inadequate strategies are employed in an attempt to recover the previous condition.Last […]

Perfection in the relationship of a couple

Perfection in the relationship of a couple There are many who seek perfection in the relationship of a couple. It is an idealistic attitude that implies a high degree of intolerance and limited emotional resources to manage differences, contradictions and conflicts.Last […]

Couples who stay together only for their children

Couples who stay together only for their children Many couples endure the unspeakable together, despite not loving each other, just for the sake of their children. Children are aware of this unhappiness and suffer the impact of a climate of resentment, reproach […]

Addiction to pornography

Addiction to pornography Pornography has increased with the arrival of new technologies. The easy accessibility, convenience and anonymity have favored an exponential increase in its consumption, consequently also the dependence on it.Last update: January 29, 2022Most […]

From friends to boyfriends, what does science say?

From friends to boyfriends, what does science say? Sometimes love is born when you least expect it and with the closest person: that friend you see every day. Did it happen to you too?Written and verified by the psychologist GetPersonalGrowth.Last update: December […]

Be kind in a relationship

Be kind in a relationship There are attitudes of vital importance for a couple relationship to work and last over time. But how can you be kind in love?Last update: April 18, 2022Being happy with another person isn't as simple as consulting an instruction manual, […]

How to win back your husband: 5 steps to save your marriage

How to win back the husband? How to make your husband want you? If you find yourself in a relationship crisis, or having to live a separation with your husband, I know it could be one of the periods for you. most difficult and painful ever to be faced, both […]

Relationships in the couple and self-preservation

Relationships in the couple and self-preservation Did you know that the psychological costs of rejection increase as the bonds in the couple create closer rapprochement and greater interdependence.Last update: 20 September, 2022Taking the risk of becoming emotionally […]

Separated at home: 5 tips on how to behave and how to win her back

Making the decision to separate is never easy. We are talking about a choice that requires a lot of reflection, determination, firmness and courage. A choice that distorts the lives of both, but which in some cases is the only option to rely on. Well, if separating […]

Make love worthy of joy

Make love worthy of joy Written and verified by the psychologist GetPersonalGrowth.Last update: December 05, 2022Love can blossom at any age and under any circumstances. However, let's be clear, not all loves are positive. Those who hurt, who take their breath […]

Gray Divorces: How to Start Over

Gray Divorces: How to Start Over Many see it as a liberation. However, divorces between people over the age of 50 aren't always that good. Behind this rapidly expanding phenomenon, there are economic disputes and great emotional challenges.Last update: June 15, […]

How the inner dialogue affects the couple relationship

Our inner dialogue never takes a break, it's like a record spinning endlessly for most of the day. But even if we are aware of its existence, we rarely question its content, assume that most of our thoughts are certain, and draw conclusions based on them.This internal […]

Unilateral relationship: how to notice it?

Unilateral relationship: how to notice it? When you give everything and get nothing in return, you feel drained and emotionally exhausted. These are the main effects of the one-sided love relationships that we sometimes encounter.Written and verified by the psychologist […]

Conflicts at work: the 4 most common

Conflicts at work: the 4 most common Understanding the logic behind which conflicts at work are produced or not resolved will help us to manage them in the best possible way.Last update: 14 September, 2022When working side by side, one of the main challenges is […]

Flaunt the relationship online

Flaunt the relationship online You may have met couples who are constantly bragging about their relationship on social networks. Do you know the reasons behind this behavior?Last update: July 26, 2022It is common for a couple to share photos, romantic comments, […]

How to get back with the ex: the psychology of reconquest

Getting back together after breaking up is not always the best choice, but when the ex partner still occupies such an important space in our heart, it is legitimate at least to ask the question: how to get back with the ex? Is it possible to get back with the […]

The sex of the brain

The sex of the brain Last update: 15 September, 2022Experience shows us that without a doubt women can become astronauts or artists, aspire to the Nobel Prize or even rule a nation with or without the consent of its citizens. And in relation to the intelligence […]

Improving couple sexuality: 5 strategies

Improving couple sexuality: 5 strategies Harvard University recommends 5 strategies to improve your sex life. Do you want to know what they are? We present them in this article.Last update: January 01, 2022It is certainly possible to improve sexuality as a couple, […]

Partner separation anxiety

Partner separation anxiety Some people cannot stay away from their partner even for a day. The level of attachment is so intense and distorted that in the event of a breakup the effects could be emotionally devastating. Let's analyze the situation.Written and verified […]

What to write to a girl: 50 examples.

Sure, there are plenty of blog articles on what to write to a girl, but there aren't any that reveal 50 messages to send to a girl in order to create such an attraction, at least not yet! Before I give you this incredibly long and pretty impressive list […]

The way we were loved and personality

The way we were loved and personality How we were loved as children often explains how we give and seek love. Even if in childhood we were brought up in a cold and painful way, we always have time to break this affective pattern. We talk about it in this article.Written […]

Love is a journey in company

Love is a journey in company Do you believe in a soul mate? Or do you see your romantic relationship as a journey where you share a backpack? This is exactly what we will talk about today.Last update: 22 March, 2022In many cases, we prefer to ignore the fact that […]

My husband neglects me: psychology and how to best react

What to do if my husband neglects me? My husband avoids me and doesn't look for me anymore: can I do something to save our relationship or is it over? Why doesn't it work with him anymore? Many women, especially those who have been in a relationship for several […]

The people we have lost accompany us

The people we have lost accompany us People who have left accompany us in infinite ways if we carry them within our hearts.Last update: May 15, 2022Coping with the death of a loved one is like navigating an ocean for a while between huge icebergs. Gradually we […]

Curiosities about friendship according to science

Curiosities about friendship according to science Friendship offers great psychological but also physical benefits, which can also be beneficial in the workplace. There is a reason why it is said that whoever finds a friend finds a treasure.Last update: July 20, […]

Love requires more effort and fewer sacrifices

Love requires more effort and fewer sacrifices The couple relationship needs more commitment than sacrifices. Abandoning everything that defines us and that is important for us to please our partner means losing our identity.Written and verified by the psychologist […]

The principles of attraction by HT Reis

The principles of attraction by HT Reis It is often difficult to quantify what attracts us to a person; sometimes we even fall into erroneous attribution. To better understand this phenomenon, HT Reis has identified four principles of attraction that explain the […]

Couple bond despite the past

Couple bond despite the past Despite the sorrows, disappointments, memories, routines and changes that dot the present, we continue to seek the bond of a couple. But why? Is there something in us that leads us to search for it? Is it genetic, social or both?Last […]

Improve communication as a couple

Improve communication as a couple If you are having problems with your partner, you may be interested in knowing how to improve relationship communication. Here are 5 tips you should follow.Last update: May 28, 2022While communicating with others is essential for […]

Millennials and marriage: will you marry me?

Millennials and marriage: will you marry me? For all those who think that the fateful question "will you marry me?" is about to disappear, in this article we present some data that prove otherwise. Marriage is not disappearing, even if it is facing important changes […]

How to overcome abandonment in 5 steps

Starting over after a bad romance can be very difficult. Having to overcome abandonment is a complicated moment in a person's life and it is absolutely essential to react immediately and in the best way. Unfortunately most people have to overcome an abandonment makes […]

The partner's family doesn't accept me

The partner's family doesn't accept me Sometimes it happens: the partner's family doesn't love us and even tries to turn their son or daughter against us. What can we do in these circumstances?Last update: June 16, 2022Some more, some less, we are all looking for […]

Love in people with autism

Love in people with autism Beyond the general opinion, a person with autism spectrum disorder is empathetic, falls in love, and can maintain a happy relationship. However, it is important to consider the challenges they will face.Last update: July 09, 2022The data […]

Heartbreak syndrome and physical pain

Heartbreak syndrome and physical pain "Feeling a lump in the throat" or "having a broken heart" are expressions that we use in a figurative sense. However, emotional pain can actually have physical manifestations of this type.Last update: April 18, 2022When we […]

Healthy love and toxic love: 5 differences

Healthy love and toxic love: 5 differences Both healthy and toxic love lead us to make many mistakes. In large measure because we do not realize that we learn to love little by little. Last update: October 01, 2022People form bonds from the moment they are born. […]

Narcissistic man: characteristics and behavior in love

What are the characteristics of a narcissistic man? How does a narcissist behave in love? Today we will provide you with comprehensive answers to these questions, specifically listing every aspect of the narcissistic man's personality. The first thing to know […]

Differences of opinion in the couple

Differences of opinion in the couple When the couple is always in agreement on everything and there is no discrepancy, it means that one of the two thinks and decides for both. Disagreeing and accepting each other's differences is the key to the success of any […]

Negative interactions in the couple: how to stop them?

Negative interactions in the couple: how to stop them? Despite trying hard, sometimes it seems impossible to stop arguing with your partner. Knowing how human communication works can help you put an end to these negative interactions. Last update: January 26, 2022Each […]

The important thing is not HOW MUCH we love but HOW we love

Love should never be an excuse. It shouldn't be an excuse to check each other out. Limit it. Generate the sense of guilt. Manipulate it ... Love is free or it is not. Unfortunately, the line between love and possession is often so thin that it is not difficult […]

Orgasmic meditation, or slow sex

Orgasmic meditation, or slow sex In this article, you will discover what orgasmic meditation is, a curious sexual practice that is interesting to know and practice.Last update: February 26, 2022Sex arouses great interest, whether it is because of the possible doubts […]

Friendship relationships: how they evolve over the course of life

Friendship relationships: how they evolve over the course of life Last update: 10 September, 2022Friendships play an important role in our lives. We all want to have bonds of affection and trust. We need others to develop and live a pleasant life. But what exactly […]

Self-sabotage in love, how to avoid it?

Self-sabotage in love, how to avoid it? Some people think that love is synonymous with suffering. This leads them to self-sabotage, or to boycott their love affairs.Last update: June 12, 2022Self-sabotage in love occurs when you engage in conduct that hinders the […]

My ex is looking for me: why did she leave me but keep making herself heard?

“Why is my ex looking for me? He left me but continues to make himself heard and show a certain interest in me, even though he has clearly told me that he does not want to get back together with me. What to do?" This is a very frequent situation, which my […]

The boy in the striped pajamas: friendship beyond barriers

The boy in the striped pajamas: friendship beyond barriers Last update: 10 September, 2022The Boy in the Striped Pajamas is a literary work by John Boyne published in 2006, later brought to the big screen by Mark Herman. Film and book have numerous differences, […]

Disappointing your partner's expectations

Disappointing your partner's expectations Last update: June 27, 2022Disappointing your partner's expectations of us can be very easy when the relationship is conceived in a precise way that does not allow for variations.As the flowers adapt to the cracks in the […]

Single parents: 4 useful tips

Single parents: 4 useful tips The single parent faces the challenge of taking care of themselves and their children without the support of their partner. However, the following tips may help you enjoy this role. Last update: 08 September, 2022Raising a child alone […]

Fundamental skills for successful conflict resolution

Fundamental skills for successful conflict resolution Last update: 14 September, 2022Resolving arguments and quarrels with some success essentially depends on the ability to regulate stress and control emotions. Learning to manage conflicts in a healthy way will […]

How to win back a lover: getting a married man back in 4 steps

I want to win my lover back! … How to win back a married man who was my lover? If you want to know how to win back a lover, this article is right for you, as we will analyze in detail the starting situation, and then I will provide you with some important […]

How to make him fall in love with me again: advanced techniques and tips

You may already know this, but the only way to win a man back is to make him fall in love with you again, just like when your relationship was in its infancy and everything was going well between you. If you're wondering "How do I make my boyfriend / husband […]

Emotional distance separates more than verbal conflicts

Emotional distance separates more than verbal conflicts The biggest enemy of a relationship is not the differences of opinion or the conflicts or the occasional problems that can arise: it is the emotional distance. Affective frost and disinterest are often insurmountable […]

Relationship of couple that makes you grow

Relationship of couple that makes you grow In this article we will talk about the characteristics of a relationship that makes you grow, its peculiarities, so as to give you the tools to establish one.Last update: July 26, 2022For many, the relationship is a brake […]

Mindfulness and sex: how to combine them?

Mindfulness and sex: how to combine them? Last update: 15 September, 2022Mindful breathing and meditation exercises can improve the quality of sexual intercourse. The union of mindfulness and sex results in more intense pleasure, in longer erections and orgasms.Mindfulness […]

Sex positions and psychology: sex reveals who you really are

From the intimacy of the missionary to the energy of the cowgirl, we discover through psychology what sexual positions say about your character. "You're so doggy style" isn't something you hear often (if ever), but your personality and your favorite sexual […]