Last update: Augusts 27, 2015
I walk away from you because you don't do my mind and heart good, because you hurt my soul and I don't like that. I let you go and wish you the best, because I don't want to get grumpy, I don't want my will to drown in feelings that are harmful to me.
I thought you were a friend, a good partner, a beautiful love or a good colleague ... But in the end, as time went by and the days passed, I felt that you only brought negativity into my life, while I appreciate myself, I respect myself, I love myself. I do not want, I must not and I cannot continue to flatter you as a young servant does his despot.
Because at this point I realized that I don't care what they think of me, the only thing that matters to me is to feel good about myself without hurting anyone. This is why I walk away one step at a time, without discussions, without quarrels, without misunderstandings. Follow your path and I will follow mine; our paths have divided.
I will always respect you, because respect is part of my life values. It wouldn't do me any good to hold a grudge against you, it would only harden and sour my soul.
I don't like wars, fights, weapons: there is always someone who gets hurt. If I leave, I remain at peace with myself, I feel happier, I feel that my soul is clean, without rancor.
I want to surround myself only with things that give me happiness. I don't want to do anything “because it is obligatory”: from now on, the only obligation I will give myself will be to be happy!
How to understand that you are with a toxic person?
- You feel a unease;
- The person often does sharp comments about yourself or others;
- Always wants appear as "the best";
- Likes to ridicule or belittle the weakest;
- He does not know how to give advice to others nor does he know how to listen, the only problems that interest her are yours;
- He does not rejoice for the good things that happen to others;
- He tends to manipulate;
- Always wants to be al Center of the attention;
- It keeps no secrets or promises;
- There are various types: defeatist, melancholy, depressed, negative, cynical, gossip, catastrophist, envious, authoritarian, blaming, selfish or even a single person can bring many of these aspects together.
How to deal with toxic people?
- Base your security on the idea that they can only harm you if you let them.
- Keep your distance from them or even break the bond.
- Don't be swayed by their negativity. If you go on a trip, they will tell you about the bad things that can happen to you; if you start a new job, they will tell you it is a bad choice. Don't get caught up in their usual spiral of negativity.
- Try to meet new people that make you trust humans again, be positive about it.
- Avoid arguments and grudges, because they will only make you uneasy.
- Don't allow them to invade your thoughts, try to be aware of the moment your mind is busy and say "enough". Silently let these unpleasant reflections slip away.
- Don't give them too much importance e make use of irony, an excellent ally in this case.
- Learn that, Throughout your life, you will meet many such people: at work, in the family, in a group of friends, etc. Don't be swayed!
