The conflict: from the real problem to the pseudo-conflict

    The conflict: from the real problem to the pseudo-conflict

    I conflicts,
    small or large, they are often a constant in many people's lives and, of
    fact, all of us have had to deal with it on several occasions. However,
    the fact that a conflict situation exists does not necessarily mean that
    a conflict occurs.

    For the conflict to arise, it is necessary that the
    parts become aware of the situation, perceive it and experience it as
    conflictual. It is during this process that conflict really arises.
    This is the moment when it becomes real for both sides. Depending on the
    contours that the awareness will take on will appear different types of
    conflict. Before mentioning the different types of conflict more
    common we imagine a very simple situation: a couple has only one
    TV and at the same time one of the two wants to see a sports program
    while the other must absolutely see a movie. The conflict situation does
    verifies starting from the existence of a common object (television) that
    is requested simultaneously by both parties (husband and wife) with
    different purposes (see different programs). It defines itself conflitto
    authentic
    that which depends on the existence of a conflictual situation
    objective which is perceived by both parties as such, in a homogeneous way
    and accurate. In the case of our couple, if they both perceive the situation
    as that the other really cares to see the claimed program (sport
    him or the film her), then we will be faced with a genuine conflict. The
    genuine conflict is the consequence of the existence of similar interests that
    they are perceived as conflicting. It is defined conflitto
    of incorrect attribution
    when each party attributes an interpretation
    different to the objective conflict situation. This is the case with ours
    couple if, for example, she interprets that he wants to see the program
    sports exactly the same time when his film does not air
    so much because he cares about the program but only to annoy him. In
    conflict of attribution, the difficulty is not so much in the perception of
    situation in itself but rather in attitude, in this case of
    distrust and on the defensive, with which it faces. The conflitto
    latent
    , as its name implies, it is what we are not yet
    manifested in explicit behavior that identifies it but appears to the
    basis of other conflicts and thus makes understanding difficult
    of the same. If we continue with the example of the couple, we can imagine that
    she interprets his desire to see the sports program as a will
    of interposition, because this is a way to bring out any one
    latent conflict between them. The pseudo –
    conflitto
    it is characterized by the lack of a conflictual situation
    objective and evident. This is the classic case in which we say “look at yourself
    around "to find" the cause "of the conflict, but this is not visible.
    However, the parties still live in a conflictual situation. Let's continue with the example of our couple, but
    assuming they bought a second TV. They now have a TV in
    living room and one in the bedroom. It might thus seem that they do not exist
    more conflicting reasons, since everyone could see their own program
    favorite without bothering the other. But… what if they both wanted to
    to see their favorite show in the bedroom? Obviously, the pseudo
    - conflicts
    they identify their conflict situation in the way in
    to which both people relate and consider each other given that in reality
    there is no major problem, and that the situation could be solved
    easily to the satisfaction of both parties. However, the combination
    between different types of conflict
    it's just the most common way these
    appear. As the definition itself indicates, this type of conflict implies existence
    simultaneous of various conflict situations that normally have their roots
    in a latent conflict on which they are going to install, with the passing of the
    time, the rest of the different types of conflict. Of course, it turns out much more
    difficult to find a solution to this type of conflict.
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