Looking for inspiration to write one letter to win back a girl or a boy?
In this article, I'll tell you how to write one letter to win back a love
But be careful! I won't tell you how to write a drama love letter to win back a boy, nor will I help you write one poem to win back a girl. These methods would not work and would even make the situation worse (I'll tell you why in a moment).
Writing a letter to win back an ex or an ex is instead important feed curiosity, show that you are okay and say that accept the end of your story. Only by taking advantage of reverse psychology will you be able to trigger in your ex or your ex the desire to get back together with you.
Before you start reading this article, calculate your chances of winning back with this online quiz. It only takes two minutes to complete: you will have to answer 15 simple questions about your relationship with your ex or the ex, and you will instantly get a result. expressed as a percentage. This is something that will come in very handy later on.
How to write a letter to win back a lost love
So we're going to see examples of letter to recover a lost love. But first I want to explain the points that the letter should contain, and the feelings it should communicate to your ex or your ex who left you:
- You have to say that do you agree with his decision to leave you.
- If you have made a mistake, you need to apologize and explain why you would never do it again.
- You have to tell him he's a great woman, or tell him he's a great man.
- If you have shown yourself weak and vulnerable so far, you must say that now you are fine.
- You have to say that something important and exciting has happened to you and that you will soon tell them about it.
- You must say that for a while it is better not to feel each other anymore, but leaving an open window for the future.
By doing so, your ex girlfriend (or ex boyfriend) will literally go crazy. He will start wondering what happened in your life, why you are so positive, and how do you cope with the breakup with such serenity.
When should I send the letter?
If you haven't heard from your ex for a few days already, I recommend that you send her immediately. If, on the other hand, you are in constant contact with the ex, you must immediately close each conversation for a few days and then send the letter.
After you send the letter, regardless of his reaction, you will have to disappear for a while. At the same time you will start a deep work on yourself and to make the partner jealous (process that I describe in detail in my book) and then re-emerge in the life of the ex with great chances of regaining.
Now that you know roughly the process to follow, and what the letter will have to contain, it's time to present two examples of letters to win back a love. Avoid copying and pasting; rather use them as an example.
Letter to win back a girl
"Hello Marta,
In the last few weeks I have lost that clarity that is typical of my person; the condition in which we found ourselves surprised me and led me to make pitiful scenes that are not really like me, I'm sorry.
I just wanted to tell you that now more than ever I agree with your decision to end our relationship. Each of us needs to take a different path, and at this stage we cannot do it together.
Lately, a very beautiful thing has also happened to me, which made me change my perspective a little, and see many things in a different way from how I saw them before. Maybe later I'll talk to you calmly.
You are an amazing girl and I am so glad I had the opportunity to be with you. I wish you all the best.
A hug, Luca. "
Letter to win back a boy
"Hi James,
I am writing this letter mainly to let you know that I am better. I realize that when you left me last Tuesday I reacted really hard, like the world was over.
Now cold, however, I realize that it was the best choice for both of us. Each of us needs to take a different path, and at this stage we cannot do it together.
There is also a big news in my life, and I can't wait to tell you about it, but it's still too early to do so.
You are truly a special guy and I am delighted to have had the opportunity to be with you. I wish you well, and I hope that later we will be able to meet again in friendship.
A hug, Marta. "
