How to make love: 14 amazing tips

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Robert Maurer

A mini guide on how to make love so that your partner is fully satisfied and asks you for more and more.

Table of Contents:

  1. the foreplay
  2. How to make love: tips for her
  3. How to make love: tips for him

How to make love: the state of the art

There is a difference between having sex and making love. You can satisfy your sexual desire in minutes through direct sexual intercourse. But making love is something more elaborate. It starts long before intercourse and ends later.

From how you get to undress, to how much you focus on foreplay, to what you actually do while you're in the act, there are a lot of things involved in making love. If you are looking for effective ways to satisfy your partner and drive him crazy for you, keep reading our article.

Foreplay is important:

The art of making love is not limited to just having sex. Foreplay can be more pleasurable than the act itself, especially for women. Foreplay is a way to prepare your partner for what is to come and to build a rising climax of pleasure.

It's also a way for your partner's body to prepare and start the natural lubrication process, which will make sex that much easier and more enjoyable.

Making love is not just a physical connection. You may have some amazing moments in bed, but if you want to go further, the secret is to be emotionally connected with your partner.

How to make love to your man, so that he asks for more:

Each man is different in terms of tastes and preferences, but there are some aspects that are commonly shared by the vast majority of men.

Here are some of the things you can try during your intimate moments with him to make sure he doesn't get tired of you:

1. Get excited:

  • While you may think that getting aroused is a man's only job, most men get turned on when they see their partners in a state of arousal, even before they've done anything.
  • As a woman, you may need time to get aroused and get in the mood. Your man will surely be very happy to get there and help you through the process, but he will also love that you have taken the initiative and already done something to turn him on.
  • If you have trouble getting aroused at first, close your eyes and fantasize. Think of all the things you want your man to do and imagine that he is doing it to you right now. Try to feel those sensations in your mind and imagine how your body will react.
  • You don't need to tell your man everything you were imagining and how horny you got, but make sure your partner can see how your body behaves and what turns you on the most.

2. Keep the environment light:

  • The word sex often brings to mind only the act and the ultimate pleasure. While you may fantasize a lot about what it should be like, in practice something different might happen. Sex doesn't always have to be smooth and seamless, because both you and your man may try certain positions that don't work. In these situations, you may feel uncomfortable or frustrated.
  • However, don't hold back on these failed attempts, as they will affect your mood and disappoint your partner. Instead of focusing on what went wrong and how it could have gone better, use these unusual moments to joke around and ease the tension.
  • Your man will love you if when he makes a mistake or fails you don't make him feel like a failure. Also, being lighthearted, light and understanding with him will greatly improve his morale and consequently his sexual performance as well.

3. Touch yourself in front of him, stimulate him visually:

  • There are many ways to give your partner an intriguing visual performance, but it should all depend on what you feel like doing. Men love to see their partners in action, both when they are trying to please them and when they are doing it to themselves.
  • Visual stimulation is a powerful way to arouse your man and put him in the right frame of mind. If you manage to visually stimulate him properly and get him to enjoy your image, he will never stop coming back to you for more.
  • The essential key is to have fun while you do it, because only when you are truly excited and reaching the highest levels of pleasure can you reflect it on your face. This will also give your partner a boost.
  • Lie down and start playing with yourself, but keep eye contact with your partner. By looking at him, you can show him that you are enjoying yourself and also check his reactions to your movements. Move your body, make noises and help yourself reach climax. If you don't want to go all the way alone, ask your man to join you and help you orgasm.

4. Caresses and stimulates his penis:

  • Men love it when their partners put their hands to good use and caress their little friend. Stimulate and massage him, and while he is gentle, he displays his manhood with a certain determination and authority.
  • You can also use a specific lubricant for sexual intercourse, in order to further increase the intensity of the sensations.
  • Rub your palms with lubricant and place one of your hands at the base of your penis. Use your other hand moving it from the bottom to the top of your penis. Make a smooth but firm movement. Not only go up and down, but also make circular and rotating movements.
  • Stroke the head of his penis with the palm of your hand and go back down, then back up. If you feel comfortable, you can simultaneously lower yourself to him with your lips and give him a mixture of manual and oral sensations.

5. Tie it up, take control:

  • Tie your man up to show him that you are in control, something that he will like and turn him on. Of course, you need to strap him in a way that won't hurt him and allows him to relax.
  • Use comfortable, sensual and silky fabrics (fabric scraps, ties, scarves or the like) and tie her hands to the headboard. Put a pillow under your head to keep it elevated so you can see what you are doing to it.
  • Remember that the basic idea behind tying it down is to keep it in place while you do your thing with it. It doesn't have to be too tight a knot, but more symbolic, so tell your man he can't move until you tell him to.
  • To make it more fun, you can punish him every time he disobeys. If he tries to get up and use his hands, give him a pat or a pinch and put him back.

6. Mojealo:

  • Your man will love the feel of the water on his horny body, so it's great to have a nice shower of foreplay together.
  • Open the water and kiss her intensely on the mouth while the water falls on your bodies. To make it even more intimate, put your arms around his head and slowly stand up on your toes as you kiss him. You can close your eyes or slowly open them as you fade the kiss.
  • Make a good lather and lather. Better yet, soap each other up. Ask your partner to lather you up while you lather him up all over. Show him where you want him to apply the soap.
  • Remember to kiss him between soaps to show him how much you love him and are attracted to him.

Here you will find an example of "shower kisses" taken from a movie.

7. Dressing mischievously:

  • Your man will love you even more if you can master this art. There is nothing more sensual and effective to arouse a man than being seen with daring clothes around him.
  • Put on lacy or ruffled underwear and walk around the house casually, without seeming like you're trying too hard.
  • You can choose, for example, to wear a loose, oversize white shirt and leave it completely unbuttoned.
  • If you want to go to the next level and you are comfortable, you can also do without your underwear and go to the next mode. Enjoy your skin and wear just that around the house, along with a pair of sexy heels or boots.

8. Talk dirty to him:

  • You will like it! You might give him a bad impression if you talk to him rudely and unfiltered, but it will really turn him on.
  • Tell him all those things you want him to do to you. You can also start teasing him right away by telling him all the things you want to do to him.
  • Take a little control and use some vulgar words that are not offensive and that give a touch of power and dominance to everything you say.

How to make love to your wife, so that she wants more and more

Here are some things you can try when you're intimate with your woman to make sure she doesn't get tired of you:

1. Create the atmosphere:

  • If no one has told you yet, know that your woman will love you more and have more fun in the sheets if you set the scene for her.
  • Depending on what your woman likes and how she likes to be satisfied, create the perfect environment for her. She can dim the lights and light some scented candles around the house.
  • Fill the bathtub and add some sensual bath salts and some rose petals to the water. Make sure the water is nice and warm and help your wife get into the tub with you. Sit down with her, look into her eyes, tell her how beautiful she is, and lean in to kiss her.
  • For the perfect atmosphere, remember to add some music in the background, not too loud but one that she can hear and enjoy.

2. Play with her clothes:

  • Many men rip a woman's clothes off and take her to bed instantly. If you are one of those people who think that this is the best way to satisfy your woman, think again.
  • There are many things you can do with the clothes your wife wears. Instead of taking them all off or forcing her to undress her, he transforms the act of taking her clothes off into an act of sensual pleasure for her.
  • When you start to remove her clothes, do it slowly and seductively. You can use these moments to build her mood and give her a glimpse of what is to come. Your fingers should slowly touch her skin and your lips should occasionally linger around her private parts. She will appreciate that you do more of these acts before, during, and after sex.
  • She plays with what she is wearing by taking off some clothes and leaving others on. If he is wearing a top and a bra underneath, take the shirt off slowly but keep it on. You can also use your teeth to open the buttons and nibble around her belly button and then around her breasts as you open her shirt. If you want to remove her bra, start touching her at the top of her bra and slowly and gently massage her nipples until you feel them harden. Once you know she's turned on, you can move on to taking that off too.
  • Slowly take off her skirt or pants - and release her panties. You can stimulate her with your tongue above her panties until you hear her moan and squirm with pleasure. You can continue until she starts to get wet and then move on to foreplay.

Just to give a better idea of ​​how clothing should be removed, below you can find a scene from the movie Endings Beginnings:

3. Satisfy her with foreplay:

  • There is a reason why the word foreplay is related to a woman's pleasure.
  • While a man is more likely to jump in and have sex right away, a woman likes to enjoy the time she spends on foreplay. She will not only help her get in the mood, but she will also prepare her body for penetration by getting wet and lubricated there. As a result, her relationship will be more enjoyable for both her and you when you finally do.
  • Remember that foreplay does not involve excessive fondling and impetuousness. If this is something that both you and your wife like, you can save it for the next part.
  • For foreplay, try giving her a sensual massage, tease her by caressing her breasts and massaging her nipples and hips. You can also touch her private parts between massages from her to help her get wet and prepare for intercourse.

4. Go down your woman's body:

  • Your partner may not always say it out loud, but if you do cunnilingus the right way, you'll drive her crazy with pleasure and she'll want more and more.
  • Be sure to do a few minutes of foreplay with your woman before proceeding with oral intercourse. You should start slowly and make use of both your tongue and your fingers.
  • Your woman may like different movements and stimulation techniques, so keep experimenting and try to find out (or better yet, ask her) what makes her enjoy the most.

Here is a YouTube video that explains how to do a cunnigulus:

5. Tease her and keep climaxing:

  • Instead of jumping right into the act, tease her, intrigue her, keep her entertained.
  • Don't leave any space between the time you stimulate her orally and the time you start having sex.
  • Once you start having sex, make sure you don't push too hard on the gas or make it too hot. Don't go straight to the point. Instead, start slowly and pleasurably and erotically prolong the act.
  • After oral sex, she should be almost ready for orgasm, so begin penetration but be slow. Once you get close to the top, stop for a moment, slow down a lot, and then start again. Keep repeating the same thing over and over again until she goes crazy with pleasure and she is the one begging you to make her orgasm.

6. Take control:

  • Women love it when their partners take control, and it's a great way to turn them on. But taking control and dominating doesn't mean forgetting what he wants and only thinking about what you want.
  • Instead, make sure you keep in mind what she likes and show her that you are taking control of her to make her enjoy. Hold her firmly in her arms and turn her around when she wants to play with any part of her body. Keep a firm and strong grip, but remember to never hurt him in any way.
  • When you take control, talk to her and give her instructions on what to do and what not to do as you command. For example, you can keep telling her to moan louder and scream when you see her climax.

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Making love with your partner is an intensely personal experience, in which both of you must be attentive to each other's feelings and needs. Make sure you talk to your partner and understand what they need.

Dear readers and lovers, do you have any other tips on how to make love to make that special someone go crazy with pleasure? Share them below.

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