Controllare
the partner it is not a new fashion. Indeed, they are
centuries that women and men take care to control their respective partners e
to this end they have resorted to the most improbable techniques, including bargaining
private investigators. However, now with
the advent of the internet and the mobile phone is much easier to control
the partner.
According to a study carried out by the London School
of Economics and Political Science, il
44% of married couples secretly spy on their own online activities
partner. First, i
researchers asked a total of 992 British couples which ones
behaviors they considered unacceptable in the other and if they controlled the
your partner. Thus it was possible to find that the people were not
happy when: - Their
partner fell in love with others online (90%) - Had virtual sex with someone they weren't
themselves (84%) - Flirted with others (69%) - Talked about their relationship problems with others Of course men and women do not always coincide
in their positions. It was found that women consider so
negative use of the internet by their husbands, much more than that
do not men. Minor problems raised activities such as shopping
online, view pornography or play online. Finally, comes the most conflicting part of the study:
check which were the most used techniques to spy on the partner. TO
in this regard, it was found that in 44% of the couples one of the members
spied on the other. In particular; 20% of males spied on their wives and 43%
of women did the same with their husbands and 37% of couples did
spied on each other. The most used spying methods were: 1. Read emails
of the other. 10% of the couples surveyed read their partner's emails without the other suspecting anything. 2. Read the sms messages of the mobile phone. A common practice always for 10% of
couples. 3. Check the history of the internet browser
to check the web pages visited by the partner. 4% of people do
did. However, there were those who went further to the point
to get passwords, use specific software to check the
online activity and assuming a fake virtual identity to provoke your own
partner. What is certain is that the data are worrying, especially if
it is kept in mind that one of the foundations of the couple relationship should be
trust in the other. Perhaps we might ask ourselves: what's the point of spying on mine
partner? Wouldn't it be much easier to ask? It is worth living with
doubts and constantly impersonating the role of detective? Everyone draws
own conclusions.
